Focus on what you can control and don't waste energy on the things you cannot. – Alice Dartnell
I have always been a huge fan of the author and businessman, Dr. Stephen Covey’s famous self-development management book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. My first encounter with this book was almost two decades ago when my dad bought me this book at Bangkok Airport when I was just 16 years old! What I learnt from it had a major impact on my life and started me on my journey that has led me to become very organised and productive. Each of the habits mentioned in the book are incredibly powerful. However, often overlooked as a time management tool, Covey’s Circles of Concern and Influence can be applied in a way that makes better use of your time so you can become more focused and productive.
In this blog, I will explain what the Circles of Concern and Influence are and how you can identify what things are in your Circle of Concern and Circle of Influence. I will also explain why people who only concentrate on the things in their Circle of Influence are more productive and effective with their time.
In his book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey distinguishes between our Circle of Concern (things we care about but can’t control) and our Circle of Influence (things we care about and can impact).
Your “Circle of Concern” will normally be very large as it includes all those concerns you have in the world, your work and in your life. It includes your health, your family, your finances, the country’s economy, political events and everything else that you are concerned about. Everything you include inside the “Circle of Concern” is something that concerns and matters to you. However, when you look at those things within our Circle of Concern, you quickly realise that you have no control or influence over many of the things in it.
Your Circle of Influence is a smaller circle that sits inside your Circle of Concern. It contains all the things from your Circle of Concern that concern you and that you can do something about. After all, we have no control of the weather, but we can improve our health by exercising more, eating more green stuff and drinking less alcohol. This is why it is important to take time to identify the things in your Circle of Influence within your Circle of Concern.
So how do you identify what is in your Circle of Concern and what items should be located in your Circle of Influence?
Put all those things you can do something about inside the small Circle of Influence and all those you can not do anything about inside the Circle of Concern.
Once you have completed this exercise, sit back and make a conscious effort only to concentrate on the items written in your Circle of Influence. This can be a powerful exercise, especially when you feel like things are getting on top of you, you’re worrying or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Often, you will realise that you can influence much more than you thought, or see that you’re worrying about things you can’t control or do anything about, and this will change your attitude and response to them.
Be proactive. Proactivity is, according to Stephen Covey, one of the most important characteristics of successful and personally effective people. Reactive people waste time and energy focusing their efforts in the Circle of Concern. They focus on things like the reactions or other people, what others might think of them, the weather, if flares will ever come back into fashion, and things over which they have little or no control.
However, proactive people focus their efforts in the Circle of Influence and take responsibility for their life rather than just watching how things happen. Productive proactive people do not waste their time or energy concerning themselves with things that are not in their Circle of Influence. Instead, they take conscious control of their life and invest their time wisely, concentrating all their effort on things on setting goals towards influencing and improving the things in that Circle of Influence that they can do something about like their health, children, business, and work. Their better time management habits = more productivity.
Identifying what is in your Circle of Influence will enable you to see where your actions can have an impact. Why waste 30-minutes of your day worrying about something you have no control over when you could have invested that time more productively, working on an important project, exercising to improve your health or learning something new.
The key is to focus your energy on those things that you can influence – this will enable you to make effective changes an – you’ll be more effective, others will see you in a positive light and this will increase your feeling of empowerment.
Now you know about the Circle of Concern vs. The Circle of Influence and have identified what is in your Circle of Influence, you need to decide how you are going to apply this knowledge. You might like to invest sometime reflecting on the following questions:
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